I am learning a lot about myself. via this blog. Triggers. We all have them when dieting. Whether it be from PMS, stress, or other things. I am learning my biggest trigger. Running low on food.
When I am running low on food at the house, eg; no meat, but some veggies, I tend to find excuses to sabotage myself. It’s very easy to say, “Uh. Let’s order Dominos tonight. It’s cheap and quick.”, after I procrastinate on making dinner. I have that tendency and I am realizing it. Instead of making excuses to order crap food, I should be working on making a salad, which is still good enough for dinner.
This diet has been a two step forward, one step back process. I lose 14lbs, gain 4 lbs, lose 4 lbs, gain 4lbs. All by “cheating this one time.” I did it again, which is why I am writing this. As I have said before, I also have a tendency to run away from blogging for a few days when I cheat. Avoidance. I guess a coping mechanism of some point.
I start training this week for a new job. Once I start working, it will be full-time. I am hoping that will stop me from running low on food and using that as an excuse to eat shitty convenience meals. I think meal planning needs to be done, even if its done 24 hours in advance. Then I cannot use, “I don’t know what to cook” as an excuse to screw my diet up.
Exercise. I’ve been making excuses not to exercise. My brother died of a heart attack at the age of 50 years old, this past November. For the last 10 months of his life, he lost a lot a weight and was exercising religiously. I am afraid I will over exert myself and succumb to the kind of death he had. Yet, a sedimentary lifestyle will give me just that type of ending. I feel damned either way. It’s become my fear and a good excuse. Yet it really isn’t a good excuse. I need to get off my fat ass and exercise. I *WILL* get off my fat ass and exercise.
Why? Because I need to….But how? By not having self sabotaging behaviors. By believing I can do this. By putting my fear aside and saying, “Fuck this. I am going to live my life, not live in fear, because really, living in fear is not living at all. ”
So once again, I will climb back on the South Beach Wagon and work for the fit body I want. I will earn this body, because the body I live inside now was earned by laying around and eating Ben & Jerry’s ice cream. The body I want is underneath the layers of fat that I own. I made my body how it is and I am the only one who can sculpt it to be what I want.
Tell me about your diet triggers and failures and what you have done to help ease into a healthy lifestyle. I am curious what others do.
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One month, two days, two hours, and thirty seven minutes since my last cigarette.